Jill’s Answer
This was a tough question to answer. There are several activities that I think I would like to try sexually but haven’t yet. I say “I think” because while I am aroused by the thought of these activities, and while I am relatively sure that are scenarios that I would really enjoy participating in, I can’t say for certain how I would react until I am actually in the situation. Both activities would involve at least one person who is not Jack or I, and while all of our non-monogamous (or “monogamish”) sexual activities up to this point have been emotionless and drama-free, I can’t say with total certainty that there would be no emotion or insecurity involved were these things to take place.
The first thing I would like to try is a threesome with two men. It’s no secret that this is a major fantasy of mine, and has been for years. There’s something about the thought of two mouths and four hands traveling over my body that drives me wild, to say nothing of having two hard cocks to play with. In my fantasy I am usually on my hands and knees, with one guy fucking my pussy while the other one fucks my throat. However, it is increasingly common for this fantasy to feature double penetration. I’m not sure that I’d ever actually attempt that, but it’s really hot to imagine both men moving rhythmically inside me, one in my pussy and one in my asshole, driving me to one orgasm after another. I acknowledge that the failure of this fantasy to come true is partially because I am worried that the experience would fall short of the fantasy I’ve created.
Another thing I think I would like to try is a soft swap with another couple. For those not in the know, soft swap differs from full swap in that the former does not involve vaginal or anal penetration. Everything else is fair game, from making out to manual stimulation to oral sex. I’m not necessarily saying that I wouldn’t consider full swap, but as we are relatively new to this I imagine we’d start slow. I’ve already watched Jack interact with another woman, and while I was directly involved here I would not only not be involved, I would be doing my own thing at the same time. As we are big fans of simultaneously watching and being watched, I imagine that sucking someone’s cock while watching Jack have his cock sucked by someone else would be a great thrill. This fantasy has yet to come true due to a lack of nearby couples willing to indulge us. However, I can admit to feelings of jealousy. I’m not sure why I have them, but I am aware that what turns me on in a fantasy might make me feel differently in real life.
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Jack the fact that her fantasy entices you as well is awesome. Like Jill I am not wanting the men to be touchy feely with one another, it’s all about me lol. Jill having been in the swap with others I can say this, when we were together I found myself too focused on my fwb than what my spouse was doing. I KNOW what I can do sexually to my husband and others. I know his ticks and likes and they are not something someone can discover with one round.
Great answers. There are not a lot of things that I have missed out on sexually either. That is why I am now more into the BDSM side of things; I am venturing in to satisfy my growing curiosity. Anyway, I love this blog! 😉
Threesome with two men = AWESOME! Jump on that one. Every single time I get to have one I promise myself I will do it more often, but somehow don’t get to do so. Also, there are not alot of things I have missed out on sexually, but that’s why I am now more into the BDSM side of things. I am exploring something I have always wanted to.
interesting…i do enjoying reading both your answers. I’m with you Jill…sex with 2 men. its on the list 😉
Ummm. I was distracted by the pic…then I read your answers. 😉
MFMs are awesome.
Good luck!
Wow…what a really great question, and some awesome answers. I think I definitely fit in with the MFM threesome for my own thoughts. But hopefully soon that won’t be the case 😉
I think I knew where Jack’s answer was going about half way through…
Jill, I love your comments on the soft swap. It’s something I’ve been giving a lot of thought to myself, and finding out where my limits are.