This week’s questions are republished from
November 23, 2010. Prior to that, they were posted at the original
TMI Tuesday blog on September 14, 2009. We answered them then, and we are well aware that we could simply phone it in this week. But for the sake of documenting our personal growth – or lack thereof – we are going to answer them all again.
Jack’s Answers
1. Have you ever shared sleeping accommodations with someone of the opposite sex without anything steamy happening?
This is the third time we’ve answered this question. While we missed it in 2010, we answered it in 2009, along with the rest of this week’s questions; and again in March of this year when it was included in a “best-of” TMI Tuesday questions list. Rather than going off on a snarky rant about how Sunday Stealing used to be the repetitive meme, I think I’ll skip this question, as nothing has changed in the last four months.
2. Have you ever streaked, flashed, or otherwise partially or totally exposed yourself in public before (or after) an informal, unofficial gathering of people?
In 2009, I made reference to an incident in which I was hot tubbing with a small group of friends, and found myself without a towel, or my swimming trunks. When it came time to get out of the hot tub, rather than worry about my lack of coverage, I just got out and hunted down a towel. Since 2009, I’ve been partially or totally naked at a sex club, and on a beach on Christmas Eve.
3. Have you had dates with multiple people in the same weekend (or consecutive nights or the same night) while not all of your dates were aware of your actions?
My 2009 answer was:
Yes. In my early twenties I would occasionally go out with one person on Friday night and a different person on Saturday night. Didn’t happen every week, by any means; I was never that kind of guy. But that handful of times, I felt like a pimp.
In 2012, that’s still true. I haven’t dated since 2009.
4. What is the most “romantic” you have ever gotten in a movie theater?
In 2009, I stated that the farthest things had ever gone in a movie theater was manual stimulation. What better venue for an illicit handjob than a darkened movie theater. I’ve also done some fingering in a movie theater, though hitherto never to Jill. And if it’s not Jill, what’s the point? However, as depicted in a recent
Wicked Wednesday post, several months after the original answer was posted I went quite a bit farther than I ever had. Jill gave me head (not to climax), and I fingered her (to climax).
5. Have you ever had sex when you knew a non-participating adult was watching?
In 2009, I said, “Oh yeah! In fact, earlier this summer Jill and I performed for a male friend of ours, after about two years of him beating around the bush about it.” While the incident described in my original answer made for a pretty exciting experience, I’ve always been more interested in having a woman watch than a guy, presumably because I’m attracted to women. However, since 2009 we’ve been watched by our friend
M, although strictly speaking she wasn’t exactly a non-participant; she just wasn’t doing anything with us right at that moment. We’ve also had same-room sex with another couple. I’m not sure if this counts, as while the other couple wasn’t participating with us, they were technically still participating.
Jill’s Answers
1. Have you ever shared sleeping accommodations with someone of the opposite sex without anything steamy happening?
My original answer, which I reaffirmed in March, still holds true. I have slept in the same bed as a member of the opposite sex without anything out of the ordinary occurring, though not lately.
2. Have you ever streaked, flashed, or otherwise partially or totally exposed yourself in public before (or after) an informal, unofficial gathering of people?
Jack says that my new answer to this question earns me the “Most Changed” award. In 2009 I said, “although I fantasize about attending sex clubs, having sex in public, and other scenarios of this type, in reality I have self-esteem issues which inhibit me from prancing around naked. Don’t get me wrong – I wish I didn’t have these inhibitions.” Since then,
I have attended a sex club where I partially exposed myself and had sex with Jack in front of a crowd.
I have also been completely naked on a clothing optional beach.
3. Have you had dates with multiple people in the same weekend (or consecutive nights or the same night) while not all of your dates were aware of your actions?
My 2009 answer was, “I’m pretty sure I never did this. In the past I only dated one guy at a time.” It’s still true. If we ever start dating other people again, I’ll be sure to adjust my answer.
4. What is the most “romantic” you have ever gotten in a movie theater?
I said in 2009 that while I’d done my share of fooling around in a car at a drive-in, I hadn’t done anything too daring in a movie theater. “Of the men I have been involved with, Jack is probably the only one who would’ve been inclined to go beyond making out at a movie theater, and he’s probably too afraid of arrest to try it now.” Turns out I was wrong! When I was pregnant with our daughter, I gave Jack a blowjob (and he fingered my pussy) in an otherwise empty theater. I don’t know if we were thinking of it as our “last hurrah” before the responsibilities of parenthood began, but it was really hot, and the risk of being caught in the act provided a huge thrill. This incident is the basis for a recent
Wicked Wednesday post.
5. Have you ever had sex when you knew a non-participating adult was watching?
As I said the first time, I once fooled around with a guy on the beach. We didn’t actually have penetrative sex, but we were for all intents and purposes naked. People were walking by, and though I don’t remember for certain, I can’t imagine that a few passersby didn’t stop to gawk at us. Also,
I once had sex with a guy I was dating while his roommate watched. I’m not sure if he qualifies as “non-participating” since he was masturbating.
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First off I have to say the cartoons this week had me cracking up. How many ways can one animate ‘beating a dead horse’ apparently quite a few. I have read the movie theater story and loved it. Odds are pretty good several women in the theater Saturday were masturbating, just not visibly. I went to see Magic Mike..We already know I would watch you guys and I cannot guarantee my non participation, oh heck we KNOW I would be participating.. period.
okay, i’m sensing a theme here, which isn’t easy for me since i’ve gotten off the Flintstones-vitamins medication, the doctors are always telling me to ease back into the theme-sensing…
a horse is a horse of course of course…*remorse*
LOL! Y’all crack me up. Love the pics. Happy Tuesday!
Love the photos to get your point across.
Glad to see you posted answers regardless of how dead the horse is/was.
*big smiles*
The first pic reminds me of the pony from the Gumby show, Pokie. Except they didn’t have stormtroopers. My husband would be thrilled you included the Sex Pistols album in the overall theme. The lead singer, I understand, has a very nasty sarcastic streak 😉
As for the movie theatre answers…you commented on mine so you know my thoughts. However, having been to this week’s most popular new flick, Magic Mike, I could have been persuaded to tempt the discomfort of the new seats and get some action going! LOL
I have tears running down my cheeks from all the “beating a dead horse” pictures! XD
~Kazi xxx