do you do pegging?

No, we don’t.  That’s not to say that we have anything against the act itself; we know how popular pegging is amongst many of our fellow bloggers, and we understand that the male prostate is a hotbed of nerve endings and that the pleasure the recipient receives from pegging is potentially very great.

That said, pegging isn’t something that turns either of us on.  Perhaps Jill still subscribes to more traditional gender roles, because more often than not she prefers being the sub to my Dom.  If one of the two of us is going to be anally-penetrated it’s going to be her.  Jill cannot say whether any of her hesitation is due to her not wanting to do it wrong; having been forcibly ass-fucked by an ex-boyfriend the need to go slow and use plenty of lube is not lost on her.  But if that has anything to do with it, it has less to do with it than the simple fact that she’s just not into pegging.

In the interest of being GGG*, I am of the mindset that there is nothing wrong with pegging beyond the fact that it’s not my particular kink.  Were it something Jill was interested in trying, I would gladly indulge her, as she is that important to me, and considering how many of my fantasies she’s allowed to come true, it’s only fair to reciprocate.  However, I can admit to being relieved that pegging isn’t something Jill is interested in exploring.

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*Good, giving, and game.  Per advice columnist Dan Savage, this refers to being good in bed, giving equal time and equal pleasure, and game for anything—within reason.  Coincidentally, Savage is responsible for popularizing the term “pegging”.