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LOVE, LUST & SEX

Jack’s Answers

1. Why do you fall in love?
Because it’s in my nature to feel love for someone with whom I have something in common, i.e. intellect, appreciation of similar pop culture, politics, etc. And physical/sexual attraction doesn’t hurt either.

2. What makes you fall in lust?
Because it’s in my nature to feel lust for someone to whom I am physically/sexually attracted. And intellect, appreciation of similar pop culture, politics, etc. doesn’t hurt either.

3. If you are in a monogamous sexual relationship and your significant other has sex outside of your relationship, will you forgive them?
I probably would forgive, but that doesn’t necessarily mean I would want to continue the relationship. I guess it would just depend on the nature of the relationship and what’s at stake. I’d like to think that if the relationship was fulfilling on all other levels, and perhaps if we had children, I’d forgive the other party and stick around. Still, broken trust is a hard thing to get over.

4. What do you idolize?
Nothing, really.  I love my wife and child.  I have a deep appreciation for the films of Quentin Tarantino. I crave delicious food and top shelf alcohol.  But that’s not the same thing, is it?  A cursory Google search sees “idolize” defined as “admire, revere, or love greatly or excessively”.  So maybe I idolize these things, but to me that seems excessive.  Religious people might warn against having false idols, but I don’t really buy into any of that.  So I’m going to go with nothing.

5. Where are your erogenous zones?
Definitely my brain. If that doesn’t count I’ll say shoulders and chest, specifically my nipples. Do nipples count as an erogenous zone? I feel like they might be overtly sexual in and of themselves, and at that point I might as well say my cock.  But if you want areas of my body that isn’t my cock, I’ll say my shoulders and chest.

Bonus: What is the strangest or most unique thing you’ve tied someone up with or been tied up with? Why were you tied up?
I once sent a friend on a wild goose chase looking for an extremely hard-to-find houseware while his wife, some other friends, and I decorated his house for a surprise party in his honor. I know it’s not literally tying somebody up, but the guy was figuratively tied up for hours so I say it counts.

Jill’s Answers

1. Why do you fall in love?
I fall in love because when I’m with the person my heart warms and I get butterflies in my stomach when he’s near. When I look at him I know I would lay down my life for them. I would do literally anything he wanted.

2. What makes you fall in lust?
An attraction so intense that I tingle when we touch. I ache to kiss the person, and I want to be close so we can kiss, touch, and devour each other.

3. If you are in a monogamous sexual relationship and your significant other has sex outside of your relationship, will you forgive them?
I’m not sure. My trust in the person would be broken and it would be very hard to get it back. I might forgive, but it would be harder to forget, and even harder to trust the person again.

4. What do you idolize?
I’m not sure that I actually idolize anything in the traditional sense of the word. However, I place a very high premium on honesty and trust. These are literally the most important things in a relationship.

5. Where are your erogenous zones?
My neck, thighs, and breasts. I love having them touched and kissed. Jack also points out that my scalp is very sensitive as well, and reminds me that I have climaxed while having my hair washed at the salon.

Bonus: What is the strangest or most unique thing you’ve tied someone up with or been tied up with? Why were you tied up?
The most unusual thing I’ve been tied up with is probably the belt from my bathrobe. I know this is hardly an unusual thing with which to be restrained, but it’s not like I get tied up every time I have sex. (Most of the time when I’m restrained it’s with handcuffs.) And I was tied up so I could be kissed, fingered, and fucked without the use of my arms. It was fun.

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