1. In winter does your sexual appetite go on a fast?
No! Is this a thing? Do people generally feel less like sex during cold weather? If anything, it’s the opposite for me (although I am just as horny in warmer months). I can’t imagine not wanting a little extra body heat from my wife during the winter.
2. What do you do to kick-start your libido when in a sexual slump?
I don’t often find myself in such a slump, and when I have it’s not due to lack of libido but perhaps lack of opportunity, i.e. during my single days; thus I am having trouble answering this question. I guess if the problem was some sort of disconnect with my partner I’d have to have an honest discussion with her and find out if she felt the same as I did. From there I’d like to think we’d figure out our sexual wants and needs, find out where they coincide, and get to work making them happen. I feel the need to point out that, upon attempting to answer this question I had to do a Google search for “How to overcome a sexual slump”. I checked a few of the results and found that some of the recommended measures were things we already do, so we’re probably in good shape.
3. What is your favorite type of foreplay (to receive)?
Oral sex. I thought about it, and I really can’t think of any other kind I generally receive. I guess a handjob is another variety of receptive foreplay, but I can’t imagine choosing a handjob when a blowjob is on offer.
4. Mutual masturbation–yes or no? What is your technique?
Yes. Middle-of-the-night sex sessions often begin in this fashion. I usually stimulate Jill’s clit, moving my fingers in a circular motion, and after a few minutes of that I enter her with my fingers. Generally speaking G-spot play will occur at this point.
5. Do you give your lover massage? How often? How long?
Yes. Whenever she requests it or seems tense. I usually do it until she indicates that she’s ready to fuck. Though massage doesn’t have to lead to sex, I feel like a failure if my wife isn’t soaking wet and begging me to fuck her just a few minutes in.
6. Do you give or receive more massage?
I give. I can’t honestly remember the last time I had a massage. And that sucks, because I could really use one right about now.
Bonus: If a clone was made of you, would you have sex with it? What would you do first?
I don’t think I would have sex with it myself, but I would definitely enlist it to do things to Jill that I can’t do singlehandedly.
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