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Author: jackandjillcpl
Formspring Friday: All About Us
when/where/how did you two meet? How long have you been together in total? And do you think you want to add another little one to the family at some point or another?
(Submitted by Pagan Princess)
We met through a well-known online dating service. We were both at a place in our respective lives wherein we were looking for, or at least open to, a serious relationship, had little time to seek one out, and ended up getting very lucky. We’d been skeptical of online dating, but each knew people who had positive experiences with it. After some time spent dating others casually – or just hooking up – Jill took a liking to my profile picture which, I’m almost ashamed to say, was nearly six years old. She dropped a line, I replied, and the rest is history.
We’ve been together eight years, and married for five. We fell for each other quickly, impulsively, the way lovestruck teenagers do. It felt so right that we just threw caution to the wind. It still feels right, moreso with each passing day. A year into the relationship I was already planning on proposing but I decided to wait another year, in part because a close relative of mine had gotten engaged around the same time and I didn’t want to appear to be riding his coattails. Being a gentleman, I discussed it with Jill’s father almost a year before I proposed, and he told no one of my plans. I ultimately proposed to Jill during a fairly casual dinner date. She was totally unaware that it was coming, and later told me that her heart was beating so thundrously that she didn’t hear a single word I said.
As regular readers of this blog are undoubtedly aware, we have one child. We would like to have another; Jill comes from a large family, and like her brothers and sisters she is a firm believer that children should have siblings on whom they can rely throughout life. On the other hand, I am an only child and I turned out pretty good, if I do say so myself. While Jill and I are certainly interested in having another child, for various logistical reasons including money, space, and time – Jill is currently forty-one – we aren’t certain that we will. If there are no additional children in our future, we will consider ourselves lucky to have the family that we do.
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The Naughty Hangout: Good Reads, and Our Newest Toy
This week, the main theme at The Naughty Hangout is “On the Shelf”. Seen below are just a few of the books that comprise our sexy bookcase, loaded with erotica, sex ed textbooks, and other naughty volumes.
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We decided to also include a picture representing “Found Objects”, one of this week’s alternate themes. Mouse over the above image to see what we found in our kitchen and repurposed for bedroom play.
Wicked Wednesday: One Last Kiss
The bedroom is dark and silent. The only sounds are the breaths we take, our hearts beating in unison against the still of the night. I can feel sweat on your body as we lie intertwined, our arms and legs tangled together. For a moment we are motionless, enjoying the bliss of this moment. Then your lips find my own and we share a single, gentle kiss before drifting off to sleep.
I know you’re leaving before the sun comes up, and my dreams are jarring and fitful. I wake and you’re gone, every remnant of your presence vanished without a trace. Next you tell me that you’re staying another day, only to disappear into thin air right in the middle of breakfast. Then you leave without saying goodbye, and when my pained sobs have awakened us both I am relieved to find that you’re still beside me in my bed. You take me in your arms and tell me everything’s all right, then kiss me until I am asleep.
You’re drying off after a shower when the bathroom light wakes me at four-thirty. Your lean, muscular body is bathed in the soft white glow of the ceiling lamp. The sadness of your impending departure is tempered by excitement, and I find myself wishing I had the energy to take you one more time. I must settle for watching you dress, and once you’ve finished you sit on the edge of the bed beside me. Words of love are exchanged, and then you kiss me good bye. I remind myself not to cry as I watch you throw your bag over your shoulder and walk out of the bedroom.
I swallow hard as I hear the door shut. My eyes feel red. Instead of rolling over and going back to sleep, I move to the window and look down at the snow-covered street below. Your car sits under a street light at the end of my block. In a moment you walk into view, and I watch as you cross the street and unlock the car. At the last instant before you’re gone from my sight, I blow you one last kiss.
-Jill
Retro HNT: Black Blanket
TMI Tuesday: October 16, 2012 – Can we be just friends?
Thank you to Erotic Adventures in Brisneyland for the theme of this week’s TMI Tuesday.
Jack’s Answers
1. Have you ever had a friendship with a someone where you secretly (or not so secretly) desired them?
Of course. I desire most of the women I know personally. Exceptions include my close relatives, though not necessarily Jill’s. Essentially, if you’re female and I know you personally, chances are that I’ve pictured you naked, fantasized about you, and gotten off to said fantasies. It’s just the way I am, and I make no apologies.
2. Are you prone to jealousy, suspicion or insecurity when your partner spends time with an attractive close friend without you? Why?
Not really. I was definitely prone to these things when I was younger, though it depended on the nature of the relationship I was in at the time. Generally speaking, when I did find myself feeling insecure or jealous it was less a sign that I was flawed as a person, and more a sign that the relationship wasn’t the right one for me. While I wasn’t always willing to bolt at the first sign of game-playing, I knew that it was the smart thing to do. Today, I feel very little jealousy of any kind, and I suppose that it’s a sign that I’ve matured, and more importantly that I’ve found in Jill the perfect person to be with. I am not the sort to feel jealousy, because I understand that Jill’s interactions with other men, generally limited to flirting, dirty talk, and sexy IM conversations, only go to show that I made an excellent choice in marrying her. Given the security of our relationship, I view jealousy as a somewhat unreasonable emotion. There is literally no cause for me to be jealous that I can fathom. Granted, I might feel a bit more jealous if Jill were exploring an emotional connection with another man than I would if the connection was merely sexual in nature.
3. Has a previously platonic friendship ever bloomed into a sexual relationship?
Yes. While I am notoriously inept when it comes to picking up subtle sexual cues from platonic friends, I can think of two incidents off the top of my head wherein I had sex with a woman with whom I was friends first. The first was Christine, a woman I worked for years ago, and whom I considered a friend. The second was Lori, who I knew in college, stayed in touch with, and hooked up with once years later. In fact, she was my most recent one-night stand, if you can call it that.
4. Have you ever remained close friends with an ex-lover?
While I am still in sporadic contact with both Christine and Lori, I don’t consider them close friends. However, when I was in my early twenties I dated a young woman for a few years, on and off. We loved each other and the sex was great. Eventually, however, we broke up for good, and though we continued to care about each other, it was clear that we couldn’t be together. We remained very close friends, almost to the level of confidantes, and in fact she attended Jill’s and my wedding some years later. However, I eventually proved myself a bad friend, and without malice aforethought I inadvertently burned that bridge. She and I haven’t spoken in almost five years, and I suspect that we never will again. The breach was entirely my fault, and I don’t fault her for running from me.
Bonus: Have you ever developed feelings for a “friend with benefits”? How did it develop, unfold, resolve?
I don’t believe that I have. Well, maybe I developed feelings of not wanting the arrangement to end, but I’m pretty sure I was always able to keep sex and love separate.
Jill’s Answers
1. Have you ever had a friendship with a someone where you secretly (or not so secretly) desired them?
In college, I had a really good friend I would often hang out with. We would talk about everything. He listened to my relationship issues and I listened to his. We would study together late at night, and occasionally fall asleep in the same bed. He and I never actually hooked up, but we talked about leaving our present relationships and date. The fact that we were both afraid that doing so would ruin our friendship prevented it from actually happening. Eventually I ended up moving, and eventually he and I lost touch. I wonder what he’s doing these days. I hope he’s living a happy life.
2. Are you prone to jealousy, suspicion or insecurity when your partner spends time with an attractive close friend without you? Why?
I am usually very secure in my relationship with Jack. Though I have experienced insecurity with other men I’ve dated or slept with, my husband does all he can to make me feel beautiful, sexy, and above all loved and desired unconditionally. But Jack has many female friends with whom he is very close, and despite the fact that I trust my husband implicitly, there are times when I do find myself feeling a bit insecure, or even jealous. I don’t know why I feel it sometimes, because I know that if these friends sought to undermine our relationship they wouldn’t be his friends for long. These feelings are rare, though. More often I am jealous that I am at work instead of getting to join Jack and whichever of his friends he’s hanging out with (usually M).
3. Has a previously platonic friendship ever bloomed into a sexual relationship?
I met a guy through my boyfriend, and considered him my friend as well. During a party at his house, he and I enjoyed a hot makeout session which quickly evolved into a friends-with-benefits relationship that lasted a year or two, long after my then-boyfriend was forgotten.
4. Have you ever remained close friends with an ex-lover?
No. In most of my past relationships, the guys ended up being jerks. They definitely proved themselves the type of men with whom a post-relationship friendship would be impossible.
Bonus: Have you ever developed feelings for a “friend with benefits”? How did it develop, unfold, resolve?
During the friends-with-benefits relationship I mentioned in #3, I started to have feelings for the guy. But it didn’t take me long to realize that he wasn’t good for me in any way except sexually.
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Masterpiece Monday
We first read Sex at Dawn, by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, in 2011. But such a validating, eye-opening look at psychology and sexuality deserves regular re-reads.
Sinful Sunday: Good Night
After a very busy week, and a weekend that has thusfar proven almost equally so, this is all we want to do.
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Formspring Friday: That’s the Spot
What is your single favorite place to be touched? What is your single favorite place to touch a partner?
(Submitted by Anonymous)
Jack’s Answer
I’m tempted to go the easy route and say that my single favorite place to be touched is my cock, and my single favorite place to touch a partner is her pussy. And while I’m definitely not averse to choosing the path of least resistance, the fact is that this question begs a somewhat better-thought-out answer than simply “My cock; her pussy”.
Other than my cock, my favorite place to be touched is probably my nipples. I know that there are many men, and likely women as well, for whom nipple play provides no stimulation, but for me there has always been a direct connection between my nipples and my brain’s pleasure center. As I stated in a recent TMI Tuesday, it’s as if there’s an air hose between my nipples and my cock. If we’re ever in the same room, try putting your mouth on one of my nipples and see if something doesn’t get inflated.
My favorite place to touch a partner (other than her pussy) is probably her breasts. I love breasts. I love caressing them, and I love licking and sucking them. And of course I love looking at them. It doesn’t matter the size or shape. It doesn’t matter if they’re “real” or not. My philosophy has always been that if I can touch them, they’re real.
Jill’s Answer
My favorite place to be touched is my pussy. Specifically, I love to have my clit played with, and my G-spot as well. If I could have both touched at the same time I would be really happy. Of course, that’s probably the most obvious answer I could have given, so instead I’ll go with my thighs. They’re very sensitive, and I love having them caressed while masturbating or receiving oral sex. It intensifies the pleasure to the point that orgasm is never far off.
My favorite place to touch my partner is, of course, his cock. There is nothing more erotic to me, and for that matter more powerful, than holding a hard, throbbing erection in my hand, examining it with my eyes, giving a few strokes and perhaps coaxing out a drop or two of pre-cum, and then dropping my mouth onto it. I love giving pleasure, and this is probably my favorite way to do it. However, in the interest of giving a less-obvious answer I’ll say shoulders. There’s something about a guy with strong, sexy shoulders, and for that matter chest and arms, that gets me wet.
If we are talking about a female partner, my favorite place to touch is probably her breasts. Make no mistake, I love touching a woman’s pussy. I love the way she feels on my fingers, and the way she feels and tastes on my tongue. I love making her orgasm. But I am obsessed with breasts. I do enjoy eating pussy, but the playful tease that goes along with kissing, touching, and sucking breasts is somehow an even bigger turn-on for me.
If you want to ask us a sexy question, drop us a line on Formspring, or use the handy Formspring widget on the right-hand side of our blog. To see who else participated this week, search #FormspringFriday on Twitter! If you have a Formspring account and you aren’t already participating, feel free to join in the Formspring Friday fun!
The Naughty Hangout: Reppin’ the Bay
The single theme at The Naughty Hangout this week is “Your Favorite Thing/Team”. Last Sunday we watched the Forty-Niners massacre the Buffalo Bills, while on Wednesday the Giants beat the Cincinnati Reds, thereby avoiding elimination from the playoffs. We are nothing if not loyal fans of our local teams. Here we see Jill showing her team spirit with a Niners baseball cap and a sexy red bra.
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Mouse over the image to see Jill doing the same for the Giants.