It’s another edition of TMI Tuesday: “Would You Rather…?”
Jack’s Answers
1. If you and your significant other played “sexual truth or dare” with other couples, would you rather watch your s.o. have sex with someone or would you prefer having sex with someone in front of your s.o.?
We’ve had full-swap foursomes and they’re a lot of fun, so I’m thinking I’ll go off the board and say both, at the same time. I mean, if there were just three of us present, I wouldn’t mind just watching while not having sex, or having sex while Jill watches. But since the question specifically mentions “other couples”, i.e. more than just three people, I see no reason why I would expect two people (or more) to spectate when they could be doing their own thing.
2. Would you rather watch your favorite porn with your sibling or read your favorite sexy erotica out loud to your parent(s)?
First off, no way in hell am I reading erotica to my parents. That seems like a good way to kill erotica for me forever. Unfortunately for the purposes of this question, I have no blood siblings with whom to watch porn. Fortunately, Jill has many, and I can think of a few with whom I’d enjoy the experience of watching porn. Ideally naked, with vibrators and lube and whatever libations might be appreciated. I doubt that suggesting such a thing would go over well, however.
3. To get sexually aroused, would you rather watch girl on girl porn or guy on guy porn?
Girl-on-girl, please. Not that I haven’t watched porn where two men interact directly, but it’s not my preference, and while I might in theory find it sexy to see any two people consensually exchanging pleasure, the value decreases a bit without a woman in the mix.
4. Would you rather have sex with your boss, in an office conference room or masturbate at home knowing that your neighbor is watching?
Funny you should ask; I actually did once have sex with my then-boss at work, though in her office, not in a conference room. Since I’m currently self-employed, and therefore my own boss, I guess what the question is asking is whether I would masturbate in an office conference room. I don’t believe I would; I have no access to such a room, and I imagine if I bogarted my way into some private company’s conference room and started beating it with reckless abandon, I’d be spending the night in jail at the very least. Therefore I would much rather masturbate at home in full view of the neighbor. And I’d enjoy it provided said neighbor wasn’t in some way being forced to watch. Ideally he or she (ideally she) would be enjoying the show, perhaps so aroused that he or she is putting on a similar show.
5. Based on your current mood, would you rather try out new and kinky sex ideas or have romantic sex?
At the moment I’m feeling pretty tired. Not sure I want to break out any new tricks, so let’s just have romantic sex and fall asleep in each other’s arms.
Bonus: Would you rather have three kids and no money or no kids with three million dollars?
This question reminds me of a particular Simpsons clip. That can’t be a coincidence, can it? Anyway, I love my kid and I wouldn’t trade her for all the money in the world, yadda yadda yadda. However, I also don’t want two more, and since I have to pick one option or the other, show me the money!
Jill’s Answers
1. If you and your significant other played “sexual truth or dare” with other couples, would you rather watch your s.o. have sex with someone or would you prefer having sex with someone in front of your s.o.?
Both would actually be fine. I’d prefer for them to be happening simultaneously. If not, I think I would rather watch than be watched. I really enjoy watching and seeing how Jack interacts with another woman.
2. Would you rather watch your favorite porn with your sibling or read your favorite sexy erotica out loud to your parent(s)?
I would much rather watch porn with one of my siblings. While most of my siblings and I do not openly discuss sex on a regular basis, I don’t have any problem with it if it were to occur. Additionally, if I were to watch porn with one of them, I imagine it would lead to some sort of dialogue, hopefully a sex-positive one. On the other hand, I don’t think I would be comfortable reading erotica to my parents at all. That would definitely be awkward, and make me feel uncomfortable.
3. To get sexually aroused, would you rather watch girl on girl porn or guy on guy porn?
Girl-on-girl porn. I think women are gorgeous, and as I’ve been in intimate situations with women, I can relate to it and imagine it happening to me. I might even remember certain parts of it for the next time I find myself having sex with another woman. I’m not opposed to guy-on-guy porn and in fact would probably enjoy watching it, but it’s harder for me to use in a fantasy, and therefore get aroused.
4. Would you rather have sex with your boss, in an office conference room or masturbate at home knowing that your neighbor is watching?
I’m definitely not attracted to my boss. He’s rather awkward to be around, and probably not conducive to sex. But I really love the idea of being watched. I wouldn’t mind the neighbor watching and would probably be more animated knowing I have an audience. It turns me on.
5. Based on your current mood, would you rather try out new and kinky sex ideas or have romantic sex?
Both are wonderful, but at the moment probably romantic sex. I’m feeling like I’d appreciate cuddling and kissing more than kink right now. The thought of being restrained, of having my arms held down as I’m fucked without mercy is hot, for sure. But at the moment I am more into slow exploration and long, sweet kisses.
Bonus: Would you rather have three kids and no money or no kids with three million dollars?
Three million dollars would solve a lot of problems and ensure some amazing travel, but I have a wonderful little girl I wouldn’t trade for any amount of money. She wants siblings anyway, so I guess I’ll go with three kids and no money. [Editor’s note: Are you out of your mind?]
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Supplementary questions, based on Jack’s answer to Q2:
Jack ~ how do you think Jill would react to you being sexually intimate with (say) her sister?
Jill ~ how would you react to Jack being sexually intimate with (say) your sister?
There was a time when Jill would occasionally throw one of her sisters or cousins into our fantasy talk. These days it happens rarely, but she’d probably still indulge me if I asked her to. I suspect that the reality would be a bit different, though that’s only because of the fact that sex is rarely discussed between Jill and her siblings. So I think it would be strange for her to actually put herself in that place, but provided things were consensual among all parties she could probably be okay with it.
Edit: Jill says my assessment is largely correct, and adds that such a scenario wouldn’t be all that much different than watching me be intimate with someone else; it wasn’t something she ever thought she’d be okay with, but now that it’s occurred, seems to enjoy.
I figured when you said “I doubt that suggesting such a thing would go over well, however” you were talking about the sibling’s respose, and not Jill’s. (Who seems pretty open to most scenarios – yay!)
*response*
I love the “editor’s note” to Jill’s bonus Q&A.