This shot was taken by a close friend of ours years ago. As I recall, he was the first person to join us in the bedroom. He had a standing invitation to participate if the mood struck him, and in fact Jill subtlely tried to coax him into her mouth as I was fucking her from behind. For whatever reason, he was content to watch (and take a few pictures). This is one of them.
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Spring Time, Sexy Time
Spring has sprung! Supposedly the warmer weather makes us want to strip down and get down. Tell TMI Tuesday blog about your sexy spring.
1. Spring time we start to show more skin. Do you shave (e.g., legs, chest, pubic area, back) more in the spring than you did in the winter?
I have been known to shave a bit, typically my chest, shoulders, and pubic area, though not moreso at any particular time of year. Generally speaking, any touching-up (or allowing to grow out) that I do occurs if I get the impression that someone I’m into has a particular preference. Jill likes me as hairy as Chewbacca, in case you were wondering.
2. Do you or would you have sex with the windows open in the spring?
Technically we can’t have sex in our bedroom with the windows open, because all we have is a sliding glass door. And we do keep it open when we have sex in the spring, but we like a nice breeze in the winter as well. In case you can’t tell, we generate a fair bit of heat in the bedroom.
3. Does your body confidence improve as the weather gets warmer and you body is less covered?
Less covered? Fuck no! I’ve got more genetic defects than a sewer-dwelling mutant rodent in a cheesy direct-to-video sci-fi film from the late 1980s. My body confidence improves when it’s cold out and I can get away with wearing layers. And a parka.
4. Does warmer weather turn you on?
a. Yes, I see more skin and get turned on.
b. No, I like winter– I like to make body heat.
c. Well, I get frisky come spring and flirt more but don’t get more sex.
d. No! I am very self-conscious about showing more of me; warmer weather and skimpy clothes bring out my insecurities.
Warm weather turns me on. Cold weather turns me on. Night turns me on. Day turns me on. There aren’t many circumstances in which I’m not turned on. Speaking for myself, I don’t detect any real connection between the season, weather, or time of year and my friskiness or the likelihood of being turned on. My mind focuses on sex with such regularity that I’m equally likely to flirt, get turned on, and want sex in the chill of autumn or the dead of winter as I am in the heat of summer.
5. Love, romance, and sex. For you, which of these gets better in spring?
Again, sorry to be so noncommittal, but I don’t know that the seasons have anything to do with these three elements. And if they do, I’ve gone nearly forty years of life without noticing. There is nothing about my life that points to a sexy upswell when it gets warm; I’m not a lifeguard living some kind of Baywatch existence, for example.
Bonus: Thinking of a current relationship that is important to you, what “Spring cleaning” needs to be done? Meaning– Assess what serves you–what to you want to keep, what do you want to throw away?
I have pretty much written off a close friend recently; while Jill has been recuperating from an injury suffered several weeks ago and our lives have been thrown into upheaval, this friend has made herself totally scarce, going from regular contact to absolutely no contact whatsoever. Not even the occasional “How’s everything?” text to Jill or to myself. I’m disappointed in her, and no longer see reason to put as much effort into the friendship as I always have. So I guess what I need from a close offline friendship is some measure of empathy and concern. Read between the lines. If I mention that Jill broke a bone and things have gone full-on chaos around the house, check in once in awhile.
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This is my favorite belt. When I’m done using it on you, it’ll be your favorite belt too.
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Do your sexy thang! It’s TMI Tuesday.
1. How do you feel about your appearance?
a. negatively
b. positively
Most of the time I feel pretty positive about my appearance. I didn’t always, though. Even in my relatively promiscuous heyday, while I figured I must have been physically attractive to others, I often wished I could change something about myself in the hopes of boosting my appeal. I wished I was a little bit taller, wished my face was more symmetrical, wished my teeth were straighter, my chest more broad, my cock larger, or my belly smaller. These days, while I sometimes still wish I was the textbook Adonis, I’m pretty happy with how I look. Especially my face. Damn it, I’m handsome.
2. Are you satisfied with your appearance?
a. yes
b. no
Yes, I’m satisfied with my appearance. It’s not like I’m suddenly going to wake up and be someone hotter, so I figure I may as well accept how I look and revel in my own sexiness.
3. Are you currently doing anything to improve your self-image (i.e., exercise, therapy, weight change, new lover, cosmetic surgery)? What?
Not really. I work out, though it’s more out of a desire to kill time during my day than it is a desire to get ripped. I’d love to lose a few pounds, but I acknowledge that this is largely based on the societal standard (which I will never reach, nor do I really want to).
4. Do you have any rules that must be adhered to either before sexual action takes place or during sex?
The basic ones, I think: Get Jill’s permission (if the sex is not with her), obtain affirmative consent from my partner, respect all boundaries, and as often as possible ascertain that my partner is not a Republican (though this one has admittedly been broken).
5. Are you satisfied with your significant other’s appearance? If not what would you improve?
I’m very dissatisfied with how she looks right now; she’d look a lot better if I took off all her clothes.
Bonus: What makes you feel sexy?
Getting dressed to the nines for a formal event; putting on a comfortable pair of jeans and a T-shirt; taking everything off; certain musical selections I enjoy; total silence; flirting with a sexy friend; fantasizing solo.
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1. If you died tomorrow, to whom would you leave all your worldly possessions?
All of my worldly possessions would go to my daughter with the exception of my porn. Jill gets that.
2. What did you like to play as a child?
G.I. Joe and other toy-based activities. Kickball. Little League and other team sports. Standard school recess activities wherein one kid would chase another around the playground (or several would chase several more), miming shooting with our fingers, or sometimes pretending to transform into jets or other vehicles as we’d seen done in cartoons.
3. Have you ever gone on a rampant sex spree while depressed?
Yes. Generally speaking I find sex sprees are better for my figure than, say, eating sprees, though they seem to be far more work. Almost more than they’re worth, actually.
4. Do you mind if your partner wants to have porn videos playing while the two of you are having sex?
No. Sometimes I insist on it. We are both subject to visual stimulation and like watching something that turns us on while we are actively working toward orgasm. I also find it provides a sexy voyeuristic thrill, as we enjoy same-room sex and this is a quicker and easier way of making it happen.
5. What is the sexiest thing you did last week?
Pshhhh. Like anything I do is less than totally sexy.
Bonus: You have to give your lover a report card about your last sexual encounter.
– What would they score? A B C D F?
A, obviously. We couldn’t possibly be a better physical match than we currently are, and after almost a dozen years we each know exactly what the other likes best.
– What could he/she improve upon?
I’m not sure. Any deficiency in our sex life of late is due to a recent injury Jill suffered which has limited the amount of time and energy we can devote to sex. The injury itself hasn’t slowed us any. And there’s no lack of ability or talent, nor is there any change in our sex drives or the amount of desire we feel. If I had to name something, though, I’m likely to say that she could take greater initiative in finding early-evening babysitters so we can have sex when we’re not exhausted at the end of the day (which is not necessarily to say we aren’t exhausted at, like, five o’clock).
– For what would your lover be reprimanded for doing during sex?
Chewing gum. I don’t mind if she chews it, I just don’t want to see it. So, gum is fine when we’re doing doggy style, but I’d rather she abstain when we’re in missionary. (This doesn’t necessarily apply to our most recent encounter.)
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1. Have you ever been so loud having sex that housemates/neighbors commented or complained?
Yep. A few years ago, on our first getaway without our daughter – actually our first night away from our daughter anywhere – Jill and I spent a couple days fucking more or less nonstop. The morning we checked out, we were having very noisy sex – noisier than we’d been either of the previous nights – and the occupants of the next room began banging on the wall. To our credit, we didn’t mistakenly think they were competing with us and get even louder. And in our defense it was nine o’clock on a Wednesday morning. Another similar event occurred a few summers ago, when we went to a resort with pretty much Jill’s entire extended family. We stayed in several houses, and ours was also occupied by a few of Jill’s siblings, their significant others, and their children. We had sex pretty much every night, but one night in particular we got a bit loud and apparently woke everybody up. Just the adults, though; if any of the children awoke they probably just assumed someone was being murdered, went back to sleep, and never mentioned it. More on both incidents here.
2. Ever had kids or parents bust in on you in the middle of full on sex?
Parents, no. Kids (or in our case, one kid), yes. When our daughter was a baby it was not unusual for Jill and I to have sex in the late afternoon while she napped. When she got a bit older, it was also not unusual for her to wake up, extricate herself from her bed, and walk silently to wherever we happened to be, which was sometimes the living room. If we were fucking in our bed, it was easy to pull the covers over ourselves and pretend we were just napping. Naked. One of us on top of the other. In the living room, however, we were usually on the floor, which afforded the little one what I imagine was a porn-worthy view of the action. Needless to say, once she developed her cognitive skills and really started talking, we confined our fun to the bedroom. More on this incident here.
3. Have you ever licked or sucked on someone else’s feet and/or toes? Was it your request or theirs?
Yep, I’m a big fan. Jill is really turned on by this, although as it turns out I didn’t know it until relatively recently. I’m not sure how, though; I’m certain it’s something I tried, because I always try it. Anyway, as it turns out, that’s one of the things I was doing to her when the neighbors banged on the wall as described in my answer to Question #1. She didn’t request it, I just started doing it while her legs were up on my shoulders, and she damn near went through the roof.
4. Describe your typical sexual romp:
a. You are playful and tame
b. You have introduced a few things like outfits and toys
c. You love trying new things and shocking your partner
d. Keep it simple–missionary, lube, sleep.
Generally speaking, I like to think I’m more of a (c) than anything else. I can be playful but definitely not tame, and while I enjoy introducing new things outfits and toys are probably not among them; I’m more the sort to introduce or suggest new activities. I have been a (d), especially lately as sex is limited by necessity to quickies, though generally speaking unless I’m putting it in Jill’s butt, lube is not required. She’s pretty-much constantly wet.
5. Speaking of lube–what is your favorite lube for sex and why?
I can’t name a specific brand, if that’s what you’re asking. In my nightstand drawer I have both water-based and more viscous gel-type lube; while I use the stuff rarely, I tend to go with the gel before the water-based unless a partner requests otherwise.
Bonus: What are you looking forward to this week?
My daughter’s birthday. Friday. Sleep, if I’m lucky. I’d love to be able to cite a few upcoming events like random hookups, a threesome or a foursome, or perhaps a play party. But none are scheduled. Anyone want to change that for us?
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We’re having a little hotel room fun. Have you come to watch?
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It’s sexual confessions (or bragging and sharing) here at TMI Tuesday blog. Spill!
1. Have you ever devoted an entire day to sex and sexual activity (with breaks for eating, etc)? Was it planned or spontaneous? Any kinky fun?
We answered a variation of this exact question one year ago this week! If you don’t feel like clicking the link, the answer is yes. Before we were parents, and in fact when our child was a baby and slept for most of the day, it was not uncommon for us to have sex for much longer periods of time than we are currently able. Not only have we devoted an entire day, we’ve also done it more or less nonstop for entire weekends. My sex drive is pretty much insatiable; this is as much a curse as it is a blessing, as the odds of going quite as long anytime soon are pretty slim; this is what happens when your wife’s vacation schedule at work differs from your daughter’s vacation schedule at school.
2. Have you had sex simultaneously with two or more people in a private residence? Did you know them well or was it a setup casual encounter?
Yes I have. I have experienced threesomes where our third was a very close friend, and I have experienced threesomes where our third was a very casual encounter. Both situations are equally fun!
3. Have you gone out in public wearing an anal plug or vibrator device?
I have not. However, Jill has done both. In fact, there have been instances when we’ve been out shopping and Jill has had a remote vibrator inserted while I held the remote. Whenever we’d get separated I’d turn on the remote and she could tell when I was nearing her location because it’d start vibrating.
4. Have you ever fantasized about or practiced orgasm control/denial?
No. I understand that this is a huge turn-on for some. For me, however, the turn-on is in giving my partner as many orgasms as she can stand. I certainly wouldn’t rule it out, however, provided that I ever find a partner who wants to be denied in this fashion. I don’t see myself being the one denied.
5. Do you like being called dirty names during sex? What names get you off the best?
I don’t particularly care to be called dirty names during sex, but that’s just me. However, I have no problem calling my partner a dirty name if that’s what she’s into. As for what turns me on in particular, it depends on her. I’m happy to call someone a slut or a whore, or worse, if that gets her hot. In fact, knowing she owns her sexuality to that degree excites me in turn. If it doesn’t turn her on, though, I’m sure as hell not going to be the one to initiate such wordplay.
Bonus: The confessional is open–confess anything you want (sexual or not).
I once had an open warrant out for my arrest for more than a year.
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