What is one thing that you think is incredibly sexy that most others wouldn’t?
Jack’s Answer
My turn-ons are pretty broad. I go for all the typical stuff: Full, round asses and soft, comfortable breasts where one can lay one’s head and drift off to sleep. Sexy, pouting lips that hint at exquisite oral pleasure to come. Long legs. Pretty, scintillating eyes of any color. I like personality, intelligence, and sense of humor. I find all of these things arousing, and I acknowledge that most people probably do as well. The fact is, most of what turns me on is fairly mainstream. There is, however, one thing that comes to mind, and while it may not be universally sexy, it’s definitely not the sort of thing that no one finds sexy but me. That one thing is glasses.
They say that boys don’t make passes at girls who wear glasses. If that’s true, then I suppose thanks are in order; because the boys refrained from showing their appreciation for the cute bespectacled young lasses, they enjoyed it all the more when I did. Glasses are often a sign of intelligence – most people don’t screw up their eyes from watching too much reality TV – and frequently symbolize quirkiness or geekiness. Often the preconception that comes with wearing glasses belie the reality, as most of the women I’ve known who wore glasses were quite wild and unpredictable.
Jill’s Answer
Watching a man interact with a baby or a small child is one of the biggest turn-ons that I can think of that doesn’t directly involve sex. There is something very exciting about seeing a Dad (or an uncle or in some cases even a grandfather) hold a baby with confidence, kiss her gently on the head, and talk to her in a reassuring voice. If he makes the baby giggle by tickling her or blowing on her belly, even better. Watching a man rock a baby in his arms, or even dance while cradling her can provoke not only a physical reaction in me, but a very strong emotional reaction as well. If the child is a toddler and he’s dancing with her standing on his feet, it brings tears to my eyes.
It really depends on the guy, of course, but watching a strong man be so tender and loving toward a child, without reservation or self-consciousness, is sexy. A guy who I wouldn’t ordinarily find attractive can completely change my opinion based on how he acts with a baby. I don’t know why I feel this way, but it’s very real to me. I can’t be the only woman who is so affected by witnessing a man’s paternal instinct. I see this a lot with Jack. He’s hardly the sort of man to adopt a tough, macho exterior. But when I see him hold our daughter, talk to her, or play with her, it melts my heart, especially if he doesn’t know that I’m watching.
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For real? Clown Porn? Thanks for the laugh. If anyone asks me why I’m giggling to myself today…I wonder if I should tell them why!! …and I can’t stand clowns!
Dear Jack, I wear glasses. Oh wait, you already knew that… 😉
Dear Jill, I love love love your answer. The other day Vincent was holding our nephew and both of them fell asleep. My heart was touched at the complete and utter tenderness and vulnerability of the moment.
Nice answers. And the clown porn image made me laugh. 🙂
Love the clown porn. I needed that pick-me-up today!
Jill, GREAT ANSWER! I thought I was the only one who felt that way. It can be very provoking in a physical and emotional sense for me as well.
Love the clown porn; thanks for the pick-me-up!
Jill, GREAT answer! I thought I was the only one who felt that way.
Oh I love watching a man with kids.. I am so blessed with Hubby who is a sucker for a little one, and has taught our boys that same love and affection. I did a DVD for him on Valentines day a few years back and talked about how much alike they were. Among the pictures was one of him laid back in his computer chair with our great niece asleep on his chest and him out cold as well. The next picture is our oldest with the same niece curled up on his chest and both of them sleeping. Just thinking about it now makes me all weepy eyed. Yes I can be a softie just don’t tell Jack lol
Yes…agreed. Glasses can be sexy Jack!
Jill…I love the same. Seeing a man being kind and loving…so sexy! Whether it be to others, to children, to animals, to the planet…whatever.
And the clown poster? Eeeek! I am PETRIFIED of clowns. That poster freaks me out! Lol. 🙂
A.
I completely agree with Jill. This is nothing so sexy as a man holding a baby. I just about an hour ago shamelessly flirted with a man pushing a stroller down my street. A good rule of thumb is to judge people by the way hey treat someone who can do nothin for them… And a man caring for a baby definitely falls into that category