Jack’s Answers

1. Have you ever shared sleeping accommodations with someone of the opposite sex without anything steamy happening?
Yes. As a young child – age ten and younger – I would frequently sleep over the homes of female friends. Hell, Jill and I sometimes sleep in the same bed without having sex. I guess that counts.

2. Have you ever streaked, flashed, or otherwise partially or totally exposed yourself in public before (or after) an informal, unofficial gathering of people?
I once found myself in a hot tub without a towel handy. When it came time to get out, I just got out. What could I do? It’s not like we weren’t all naked in the hot tub anyway. On second thought, this might not count; I got the impression the question was referring to me being naked while everyone else was clothed.

3. Have you had dates with multiple people in the same weekend (or consecutive nights or the same night) while not all of your dates were aware of your actions?
Yes. In my early twenties I would occasionally go out with one person on Friday night and a different person on Saturday night. Didn’t happen every week, by any means; I was never that kind of guy. But that handful of times, I felt like a pimp.

4. What is the most “romantic” you have ever gotten in a movie theater?
Strictly manual stimulation. I’ve given it a few times, but was the recipient more often. Granted, I don’t do this very often anymore, but in my more reckless days, I would look forward to a night at the movies, more for the possibility of a little semi-public hanky panky than for the movie itself. As a matter of fact, my first handjob occurred at a midnight showing of The Rocky Horror Picture Show.

5. Have you ever had sex when you knew a non-participating adult was watching?
Oh yeah! In fact, earlier this summer Jill and I performed for a male friend of ours, after about two years of him beating around the bush about it.

Jill’s Answers

1. Have you ever shared sleeping accommodations with someone of the opposite sex without anything steamy happening?
Of course. Usually this happens (or used to happen) out of necessity. Sharing a hotel room, sharing a spare bed, etc. I can’t remember the last time I found myself in bed with a man who wasn’t Jack.

2. Have you ever streaked, flashed, or otherwise partially or totally exposed yourself in public before (or after) an informal, unofficial gathering of people?
I’m not quite as much of an exhibitionist as Jack. Although in private I enjoy being naked, and although I fantasize about attending sex clubs, having sex in public, and other scenarios of this type, in reality I have self-esteem issues which inhibit me from prancing around naked. Don’t get me wrong – I wish I didn’t have these inhibitions. I would love nothing more. I can’t think of any specific incident where I was naked at a gathering where everyone else was clothed, but I have gone skinny-dipping with a mixed group (guys and girls). That’s the only thing that comes to mind right now.

3. Have you had dates with multiple people in the same weekend (or consecutive nights or the same night) while not all of your dates were aware of your actions?
I’m pretty sure I never did this. In the past I only dated one guy at a time.

4. What is the most “romantic” you have ever gotten in a movie theater?
Not very! Of the men I have been involved with, Jack is probably the only one who would’ve been inclined to go beyond making out at a movie theater, and he’s probably too afraid of arrest to try it now. I have, however, done plenty of fun things while in the car at a drive-in movie!

5. Have you ever had sex when you knew a non-participating adult was watching?
I definitely have. In addition to the performance Jack mentioned, I once fooled around with a guy on the beach while people walked by, and I once had sex with a guy I was dating while his roommate watched us. The roommate was kind of participating. You can read about that time here. I have also been the non-participating adult watching.