1. If your lover was turned on by forced feminization would you participate (giving or receiving)?
*forced feminization is the practice of enforcing activities on a male, which are typically associated with women, to make him submissive. For example: wearing lingerie, heels, make-up.
Of course I would. A big part of any relationship, whether sexual or otherwise, is compromise. I believe in give and take, and understand that sometimes one must (or at least should) indulge his or her partner’s sexual kinks, provided that they are reasonable. (The parameters of “reasonable” may vary.) I’m not turned on by forced feminization – as far as I know Jill isn’t either – but I am seriously turned on by the idea of having a partner who is completely satisfied in every possible way. So if this was Jill’s thing, yes, I would participate.
It worked out pretty well for this guy.
2. When you have sexual dreams or fantasies that are aggressive or cruel, does it worry you? I don’t really have sexual dreams or fantasies that are cruel. I tend to be dominant, so my dreams and fantasies – as well as my reality – often involve me taking control. While I might classify this as aggressive, it’s never cruel, and in fact the notion of non-consent as part of sex play is something that doesn’t really appeal to me; I am hard-pressed to take the aggression to that level even when it’s requested. However, even if my sexual fantasies were full of the sort of belligerence and hostility that would make a psychiatrist see dollar signs, I doubt it would worry me as I have no trouble separating fantasy and reality.
Now if you’ll excuse me, I have matters to attend to.
3. Tell us your hottest filthiest fantasy, right now, in 100 words or less. This is the fantasy about your desires that you probably never share, maybe they even go against your morals, or are societal taboos.
Jill. Two of her sisters. (She knows which ones.) Lube. Three vibrators. Two dildos. One harness. Me. Camera. And then I fuck all three of them.
4. Which super hero would you like to have sex with? Why?
a. Aquaman
b. Superman
c. Wonder Woman
d. She-Ra
None. As a lifelong Marvel Comics fan I take umbrage over the fact that no Marvel superheroes are represented here. I mean, seriously – three DC characters, two of them male; and a He-Man ripoff designed to sell toys to little girls in the 1980s? I’m no DC fan, but at least include Catwoman; fanboys always gravitate to the leather-clad bad girl. Given that The Avengers, a film based on a Marvel Comics property, spent three weeks at the top of the box office this month, you’d think they’d throw in Thor and Black Widow. As for my answer, I’m definitely going outside the box here. Once upon a time I would have been inclined to pick the X-Men’s Rogue, who was my superhero crush back in my hardcore comic geek days. Unfortunately, the fact that you can’t physically touch her without getting your shit fucked up would be a big deterrent for me. These days, I’d be inclined to pick Storm, particularly as drawn by Dave Cockrum in her debut in Giant-Size X-Men #1; or by Jim Lee in 1991’s X-Men #1. Though I’ll admit it’s an iconic look, I was never particularly wowed by Paul Smith’s interpretation of the character, which saw her clad in black leather and sporting a mohawk. That said, I wouldn’t kick Mohawk Storm out of bed. Were I forced to choose a character from the above list, I suppose I would go with She-Ra, if only because she carries a weapon called the Sword of Protection. Presumably this means we wouldn’t have to use condoms or birth control. Anyway, apologies for the geek-out. I presume Jill’s answer won’t be so obsessive-compulsive and reflexively irate.
5. Knowing there’s a hot young couple in the adjoining hotel room, would you press your ear against the wall to hear the action on the other side?
I hope that I wouldn’t have to! One of the things that really turns us on is listening (or watching) someone without their knowledge. I’m not talking about peeping through a window, as we would never deliberately invade someone’s privacy. But were we in a hotel room and there was some manner of noisy sex occurring on the other side of the wall, we would definitely use it as fuel for our own lovemaking. (Well, provided the baby wasn’t with us.) Actually, last month when Jill and I spent a couple days alone in a hotel, we found ourselves having very vigorous, very noisy sex at around 9:30 AM. Apparently we were so loud that our neighbors didn’t need to press their ears against the wall. And judging by the (non-sexual) pounding coming from their room, they weren’t pleased.
We, on the other hand, most definitely were.
6. Do you think the lure to live out sexual fantasies or have sex frequently is amplified by technology? Briefly explain.
Yes I do. I think that technology, especially in the form of social networking, is a good way of sharing information. We have been told that our blog, and some of the things we’ve tweeted, have inspired others to follow our lead. Likewise, some of the things that we have read on the blogs of others have helped us broaden our own horizons.
Bonus: Describe your fantasy life in three (3) words.
Really fucking active.
As opposed to my real life.
Jill’s Answers
1. If your lover was turned on by forced feminization would you participate (giving or receiving)?
*forced feminization is the practice of enforcing activities on a male, which are typically associated with women, to make him submissive. For example: wearing lingerie, heels, make-up.
Forced feminization isn’t something I’m interested in. But if Jack was into it, I would gladly indulge his fantasy. After all, I have indulged many of his fantasies (and he has indulged many of my own). For all I know I might be turned on by such a scenario, especially if he got a lot of pleasure from it. It might become a regular thing, and who knows? Maybe he looks amazing in one of my lacy thongs.
What do you know? I was right.
2. When you have sexual dreams or fantasies that are aggressive or cruel, does it worry you?
I can’t recall any dreams or fantasies that I’ve had that have been cruel. I’ve had some sexual dreams that have involved BDSM, and some of them were very aggressive, but I was always the recipient of the aggression and not the aggressor. In these dreams I was blindfolded and restrained, and the sex was rough though it wasn’t quite a rape scenario. I remember being totally unafraid and even excited. I knew that I wasn’t going to be seriously harmed in any way. If my dreams or fantasies involved cruelty I don’t think it would worry me. These are not scenarios in which Jack and I actively participate. I love being restrained and spanked, but right now that is the extent of my BDSM interests.
3. Tell us your hottest filthiest fantasy, right now, in 100 words or less.
This is the fantasy about your desires that you probably never share, maybe they even go against your morals, or are societal taboos.
Having sex with Jack, my college roommate’s husband, and my sister-in-law. Sucking both guys’ cocks while she eats my pussy. Fingering her G-spot while she fingers mine. Both of us cumming and lapping up the other’s juices. Sixty-nining with her while the guys fuck us. Being double-penetrated by the guys while my sister-in-law and I make out. Having her sit on my face so I can eat her pussy and ass while they fuck me. All four of us climaxing simultaneously in a glorious cacophony of moans, grunts and “oh fuck”s.
4. Which super hero would you like to have sex with? Why? a. Aquaman b. Superman c. Wonder Woman d. She-Ra When Super Friends was big in the late 1970s and early 1980s, I thought Aquaman was hot. I know that I always go for tall, dark and handsome, but for some reason Aquaman turned me on. When they redesigned him to look like a crazy mountain man with a scraggly beard and a nasty spear thing for a hand, that killed my girl boner. To this day, though, I love having sex in water, whether it’s a pool, the shower, a hot tub, a lake, or other body of water. I’ve never had sex in the ocean, but I bet it’s fabulous.
I bet Superman would be a pretty fun fuck, because he’s the Man of Steel and that would probably apply to his cock. On the other hand, the guy can fly around the entire planet in seconds, so I’m guessing he doesn’t take his time. Also, Jack reminds me of this discussion from Mallrats:
Wonder Woman is pretty sexy, and I bet her golden lasso would really come in handy. I’ve never tried rope bondage before, but if she wanted to tie my arms behind my back and fuck me with a strap-on, I’m not going to tell her no. Plus, having sex in her invisible plane would be a lot of fun. I always wondered what good an invisible plane was if it didn’t render the people flying in it invisible also. Basically it just looks like she can fly, but in a sitting position.
She-Ra? She’s He-Man’s sister or something, right?
5. Knowing there’s a hot young couple in the adjoining hotel room, would you press your ear against the wall to hear the action on the other side? I don’t think I would put my ear to the wall, but if I happened to overhear what they were doing, I’m going to enjoy it, not bury my head under the pillows. I’d like to think, however, that I would be having even louder, more amazing sex than the people on the other side of the wall, so we might drown them out. Actually, I like the idea of having a little contest to see which of us is louder. Or better still, how about if we each move to our respective balconies so we can watch each other too?
6. Do you think the lure to live out sexual fantasies or have sex frequently is amplified by technology? Briefly explain. I do believe that technology has expanded my sexual knowledge base. Reading blogs regularly has introduced me to and familiarized me with all sorts of new sexual practices. By reading about what other people enjoy we can decide whether these practices are suitable for us. Also our blog has given us a place to discuss and explore our sexual selves. Sex isn’t something that we can discuss candidly in a social setting with friends and relatives, so we appreciate the opportunity that blogging affords us. Although I feel that people would be having sex without much of the technology that faciliates it nowadays, I do like the fact that the internet enables us to share this side of ourselves with people half a world away.
And let’s not forget about sex robots.
Bonus: Describe your fantasy life in three (3) words. Sensual, erotic, passionate.
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12 thoughts on “TMI Tuesday: May 29, 2012 – It’s just a fantasy”
As always, an entry worth waiting for! How did I know Jack would “geek out” on the whole superhero thing?
I frequently see the BF in lacy panties and it really turns me on. Never thought I would say that until I saw how much he liked it. I really loved how you both said that if #1 turned your partner on, you would do it for them. That is true love right there.
Firstly I loved both of your answers for #3. I almost took Jacks pic for #2 and added a “rainbow” effect for my answer to #3. But I must say, I am more of a DC (Batman) fan, so nearly chose Poison Ivy or Big Barda for #4. Cat Woman, Talia, The Batgirls, and Vixen also came to mind. I also remembered this: http://uk.ign.com/images/articles/battle-of-the-comic-book-babes-627277/1161926
Jack hell yeah to Catwoman.. I somehow seriously doubt you look a damn thing like the guy in the recliner. ahem. See even Jill says She Ra is fuckable. I can honestly say none of my in laws have tripped my trigger. As always love the illustrations.
As a Marvel devotee as well, I’m with you. If I were choosing a Marvel character Rogue would be right up there. I would also have to think of Psylocke in the mid-90’s as well. Great answers as always by both of you.
To be fair, if you were having loud sex at 9:30 in the morning and I was trying to sleep after having had loud sex until 3:30 in the morning, then I’d probably be screaming at you in a not-sexy way.
As always, an entry worth waiting for! How did I know Jack would “geek out” on the whole superhero thing?
I frequently see the BF in lacy panties and it really turns me on. Never thought I would say that until I saw how much he liked it. I really loved how you both said that if #1 turned your partner on, you would do it for them. That is true love right there.
I love all the additional illustrations to go with your post! Wonderful. Happy TMI. x
you’re right, that was particularly filthy, and i love it. oh, that 3rd pic, that 3rd pic, oh, oh, ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
that Mallrats scene is extra funny because it’s discussed in such a serious, scientific, professorial way
hey, i like the new blog digs you’re living in now!
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Firstly I loved both of your answers for #3.
I almost took Jacks pic for #2 and added a “rainbow” effect for my answer to #3.
But I must say, I am more of a DC (Batman) fan, so nearly chose Poison Ivy or Big Barda for #4.
Cat Woman, Talia, The Batgirls, and Vixen also came to mind.
I also remembered this:
http://uk.ign.com/images/articles/battle-of-the-comic-book-babes-627277/1161926
Jack hell yeah to Catwoman.. I somehow seriously doubt you look a damn thing like the guy in the recliner. ahem. See even Jill says She Ra is fuckable. I can honestly say none of my in laws have tripped my trigger. As always love the illustrations.
As a Marvel devotee as well, I’m with you. If I were choosing a Marvel character Rogue would be right up there. I would also have to think of Psylocke in the mid-90’s as well. Great answers as always by both of you.
3. Jack and Jill: do it and then blog about it for us. Every fantastic detail. 😀
To be fair, if you were having loud sex at 9:30 in the morning and I was trying to sleep after having had loud sex until 3:30 in the morning, then I’d probably be screaming at you in a not-sexy way.
Unless you’re turned on by rage and crankiness.
That makes sense. But the people in the next room weren’t.
LOL Love the answers… Hey jack… your geek is totally showing… I like it;) Saw avengers AGAIN last night with my kiddos.