Hello my fellow TMI Tuesday junkies. Movember is in full-swing. I can’t wait to see those Mo’s a little later in the month. In the meantime here is a set of VERY fine TMI Tuesday questions from longtime blogger and frequent TMI Tuesday question contributor Virtual Sin.
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Some men who have been treated for Prostate Cancer are unable to get an erection.
Jack’s Answers
1. If they were treated with surgery, the usual reason is nerve damage. They may have success with a penis pump. Question: Have you (or your partner) ever used a pump? Did it work? Was it a turn-on or a turn-off?
I’ve never used a penis pump, but I’ve used a standard air compressor for inflating tires, basketballs, and the like. I can’t say that it turned me on in and of itself, but – true story – when I was twenty years old I found myself using a manual air pump to inflate an air mattress on which I planned to have sex with my girlfriend. The thought of her spread legs, full breasts, and willing mouth, all of which I’d be enjoying as soon as the mattress was ready, was a definite turn-on. Unfortunately I was so exhausted two hours later when the mattress was fully inflated that I can’t say I gave my best performance.
2. If they were treated with radiation, the usual reason is damage to blood vessels. They may have good luck with Viagra or or one of the other impotence meds. Question: Have you (or your partner) ever used Viagra, Cialis, or similar? Did it work? Any interesting side effects? Any 4-hour erections? Tell us how you made use of that.
I’ve never used any manner of boner pills, but your mention of four-hour erections makes me think that perhaps I should give them a try. Incidentally, frequent airing of Viagra and Cialis commercials during Sunday afternoon football games leads me to believe that future generations studying current American society will deduce that 21st-century American males sought to compensate for their physical shortcomings by driving enormous cars and watching men pummel one another over a ball, all while drinking yellow swill deceptively marketed as “beer”.
3. Some men may opt for a penile implant. See http://www.urologicalcare.com/advanced-ed-treatments/types-penile-implants/. Do you have experience with a penile implant (as owner or lover-of-owner)? Did it work for you?
No, but some people say I have a stick up my ass. Does that count?
4. If they were treated with hormone therapy (e.g. Lupron Depot), they may also lose all libido. I can’t think of a good question, but if you have a story, please share.
I’m afraid I have no such stories, but I did visit Home Depot last week to browse refrigerators. Wow, my answers really suck this week. Sorry; I hate to give the impression that I’m not taking this seriously.
5. Some men diagnosed with Prostate Cancer change their diet or avoid certain foods. Did you ever change your diet for health reasons? How did it work out? How long did you stay on the diet?
At different times in my life I’ve attempted to eat healthy, with varying measures of success. Typically when I do this it’s for the purpose of losing weight as opposed to unclogging my arteries or relieving high blood pressure. The truth is, however, that I tend to eat whatever I want, no matter how insubstantial or “junk foody”. I’ve found that, rather than cutting out certain foods altogether, I experience greater success when I simply limit my portions. Ultimately I shouldn’t care; I’m only interested in losing weight so that I can look better naked, and frankly I think I look pretty damn good as I am.
6. The prostate is a sexual organ, and treatment of the prostate changes the sexual experience. A man who has had his prostate removed does not ejaculate at orgasm. How would you react to a total lack of cum?
Ah, finally a question that inspires real, substantial thought, and which I can take absolutely seriously. It’s never occurred to me that the removal of the prostate would signal the end of my ejaculations. Once in awhile I’ll have an orgasm and not ejaculate, although this typically occurs when I’ve cum several times in a relatively short period. As an occasional anomaly, an orgasm without ejaculation wouldn’t bother me too much, but I’d be lying if I said that the thought of never ejaculating for the rest of my life sounds like no big deal. The truth is that I couldn’t imagine never cumming in Jill’s mouth, never watching her and another woman sharing my orgasm between ruby lips and excited tongues. The thought of never again filling Jill’s pussy or her ass makes me sad as well. I assume that I would get over it, though. I’m not defined by my ejaculation.
7. Although removal of the prostate reduces the intensity of orgasm in the pelvic region, some men report orgasmic feelings in other parts of the body, some describing a “whole body orgasm.” How cool is that?
That does sound pretty cool! I’m not sure that I’d be willing to trade my prostate (and with it, my ability to ejaculate) for such a whole body orgasm, but I suppose that I would begrudgingly take this new ability as a sort of trade for my semenless future.
8. Do you think a man treated for PRostate Cancer deserves a blow job? If yes, please email Virtual Sin aka SinnerMan…
I most certainly do, though not from me. Nothing personal.
Jill’s Answers
1. If they were treated with surgery, the usual reason is nerve damage. They may have success with a penis pump. Question: Have you (or your partner) ever used a pump? Did it work? Was it a turn-on or a turn-off?
No, I have never used a penis pump, though I did use a breast pump when I was nursing our daughter a couple years ago. It did kind of turn me on a bit, though nowhere near as much as, say, using a vibrator.
2. If they were treated with radiation, the usual reason is damage to blood vessels. They may have good luck with Viagra or or one of the other impotence meds. Question: Have you (or your partner) ever used Viagra, Cialis, or similar? Did it work? Any interesting side effects? Any 4-hour erections? Tell us how you made use of that.
I’ve never used Viagra or Cialis with a partner. The closest I’ve come is having a few drinks before sex with a new partner in order to get myself in the proper frame of mind.
3. Some men may opt for a penile implant. See http://www.urologicalcare.com/advanced-ed-treatments/types-penile-implants/. Do you have experience with a penile implant (as owner or lover-of-owner)? Did it work for you?
No, though I did consider getting breast implants when I was younger.
4. If they were treated with hormone therapy (e.g. Lupron Depot), they may also lose all libido. I can’t think of a good question, but if you have a story, please share.
I have a story, but it doesn’t involve hormone therapy. It involves me lying on my back in a huge, soft hotel bed and getting my pussy eaten by a fellow sexy blogger while Jack fucked my mouth. Sorry, it’s pretty much all I’ve been able to think about this week.
5. Some men diagnosed with Prostate Cancer change their diet or avoid certain foods. Did you ever change your diet for health reasons? How did it work out? How long did you stay on the diet?
When I was pregnant with our daughter I had gestational diabetes, and I was required to change my diet to keep the condition under control. Rather than eating three regular meals a day I switched to six small meals, which usually consisted of different combinations of protein, carbohydrate, dairy product, and produce. Obviously for the health of myself and my child, I gladly adhered to the diet. But I was really glad when the doctor cleared me to start eating chocolate again.
6. The prostate is a sexual organ, and treatment of the prostate changes the sexual experience. A man who has had his prostate removed does not ejaculate at orgasm. How would you react to a total lack of cum?
I love cum. I love it in my mouth and on my tongue. I love feeling it rain down on my face and my tits. I love it when Jack cums inside me. All of these things are really sexy and sometimes can be very emotional for me as well. So if Jack could not ejaculate anymore I would be very sad to lose that facet of our sexual relationship. But I think I would be so glad that he was in good health that it really wouldn’t matter to me.
7. Although removal of the prostate reduces the intensity of orgasm in the pelvic region, some men report orgasmic feelings in other parts of the body, some describing a “whole body orgasm.” How cool is that?
That’s pretty cool. Incidentally I have whole body orgasms sometimes. I wonder if men can have them without losing their prostate.
8. Do you think a man treated for PRostate Cancer deserves a blow job? If yes, please email Virtual Sin aka SinnerMan…
Of course!
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These were definitely hard questions to answer! I did enjoy your perspective. 🙂
~Kazi xxx
The only one I have any experience with is the medicine.. other then that I had nothing. A tough week for TMI.. on the upside I would have loved to have been the one eating you Jill with Jack in your mouth without a doubt.
Jack: I’m glad you’re not defined by your ejaculation.
Jill: I liked your story in #4. Wanna read more about that. 🙂
great post, you two. i don’t like it when things get too serious, i’m out of my comfort zone and actually have to think and feel things…