Sometimes ya gotta do, what ya gotta do–like play TMI Tuesday!
Liz Lemon and Jack Donaghy from “30 Rock”
Just me (Jack) this week, folks…
1. What do you find sexiest in a woman?
An open mind. Don’t get me wrong; I am definitely turned on by a woman’s physicality. But I find engaging with a woman’s mind somehow far more exciting.
2. What do you find least sexy in a man?
3. Have you ever been the other woman or man? Would you do it again?
I have, though I prefer not to be. I am always happiest when I can be with someone openly, without any sneaking around. I liken it to my current dilemma: I have an open relationship, but cannot date in my local area because of the likely repercussions – professional and personal – for my wife were I to be observed. I don’t enjoy that sort of repression, and I’d like to think I wouldn’t be the other man again. But I probably would.
4. Who puts more into a romantic relationship you or your significant other?
I do. There’s no question of this. I’ve always been the romantic sort. In the past, I think I was this way because it was how I thought I was supposed to be, or what the women I dated might have expected of me. These days, though, I think I put so much into a romantic relationship because it pleases me to do so.
5. Do you have a “work wife” or “office husband”?
Nope. I’m self-employed. It’s simply not an option.
Bonus: Are you in a healthy relationship? What makes you think so?
Not particularly, but I like to think it’s getting a little healthier each day.
Bonus, bonus: Is the “work spouse” strictly a U.S. American anomaly (they do spend an insane amount of hours at work)? One study found 32% of Americans admitted to having a work spouse.
What am I, a sociologist? How would I know?
How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!