Jack’s Answers
1. What sexual act arouses you the most? For that matter, what nonsexual act arouses you the most?
I like watching Jill – or any woman – masturbate. That’s a surefire way to get me worked up. If we’re talking about one- (or two-) on-one sexual activity, oral sex. That gets me pretty aroused. There are lots of things that I like to do sexually, but by the time I’m doing them I’m already aroused. So I’m going to say watching female masturbation, and oral sex. As far as nonsexual acts, eating, followed by depositing large amounts of money in my bank account.
2. What is your signature or “go to” move that is sure to get a lover in the mood for sex?
For Jill, it’s kissing her neck. This turns her into a puddle.
3. Do you queef?
I haven’t yet. I’m honestly not that curious to find out if I would. [EDIT: Technically speaking I guess I can’t queef, as it’s a bodily function that occurs in the vagina only. I suppose that expelling air out of the anus would just be a fart.]
4. What’s the weirdest thing that’s happened to YOU as a result of your sex writings (e.g., blog, erotica, sex toy reviews)? (borrowed from Insatiabear)
Hard to say. Nothing immediately comes to mind. Despite the fact that we’re super-hot sex bloggers who Tweet naughty pictures and regularly participate in OHNT, we’re pretty much regular people and no aliens have seen fit to abduct us for nefarious sexual purposes. Although on Saturday we did go to a sex club as much for the purposes of documenting the experience on our blog as out of general curiosity. It still wasn’t that weird. I’m thinking “weird” would be, say, one of our followers recognizing my wife’s breasts in public.
5. Have you ever had sex while someone watched?
…someone else was in the room?
…someone else in the bed, next to you and the person you’re having sex with?
What were the circumstances?
Yes. Before I met Jill, a girlfriend and I used to have semi-regular same-room sex with another couple, and it was pretty hot. Since meeting Jill, we’ve had same-room sex with a different couple (in the dark), same-room oral, and invited a single friend of ours over to watch us fuck. We’ve also had threesomes, which included Jill and I fucking while our third watched, or possibly texted or checked Facebook on her phone. [EDIT: I’m not sure how neither Jill nor I remembered to include mention of our sex club adventures this weekend. They certainly qualify.]
6. When it comes to sex, and discussing it with your teen have you or would you:
a. Let school sex education handle it
b. Hand the teen a book or point them to a website
c. Talk frankly and openly
d. Avoid it all together–society, friends, and the internet will give all the info needed
I’m tempted to say (d), let society, the internet, etc. do our work for us. That’s how I learned about sex, and I have no regrets whatsoever. However, by the time our daughter is in need of sex ed, I can’t imagine what kind of information (or more likely, misinformation) will be circulating around the playground, be it an actual playground or a virtual one. Therefore I suppose we’d better do our job as parents and talk to her. You have no idea how badly I wish I could just refer her to a reputable and sex-positive website like Scarleteen, and leave it at that, but despite my innate lack of comfort talking sex with my child, I hope that I will overcome it and be able to use said website as a supplement to our talks. Then again, by the time our daughter is a teenager we might very well be nearing senility.
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What are you too sexy for?
My clothes. There is nothing that I can possibly wear that could make me hotter than I am without it.
Jill’s Answers
1. What sexual act arouses you the most? For that matter, what nonsexual act arouses you the most?
The sexual act that arouses me the most is probably being kissed all over my body, not just in the places you’d expect. My neck, my shoulders, my stomach, my thighs, my feet. Do that to me and you’ll make me very wet without even touching my pussy. The nonsexual act is definitely getting my hair washed. That turns me on so much that I once had an orgasm while at the hairdresser.
2. What is your signature or “go to” move that is sure to get a lover in the mood for sex?
In the case of Jack, kissing him while placing my hand on his cock, or placing his hand between my legs.
3. Do you queef?
Yes, sometimes when I’ve been fucked from behind. Sometimes Jack pumps a lot of air into me that way. It’s got to come out somehow.
4. What’s the weirdest thing that’s happened to YOU as a result of your sex writings (e.g., blog, erotica, sex toy reviews)? (borrowed from Insatiabear)
I don’t think anything weird has happened as a result of our blogging and Tweeting. We have been asked by Eden Fantasys to review sex toys, and while it was out of the ordinary I wouldn’t say it was weird. Nothing really weird has happened to us, but I wouldn’t mind if something did, as long as it was hot.
5. Have you ever had sex while someone watched?
…someone else was in the room?
…someone else in the bed, next to you and the person you’re having sex with?
What were the circumstances?
Yes, I have done this. I frequently masturbate while Jack watches. I know that this isn’t what was meant, but I thought I would include it. I have had penetrative sex with other people in the room. Once, Jack and I invited a friend over to watch us have sex. It was really hot to think that he enjoyed our performance, even though he didn’t whip out his cock and play with it or anything. I’m happy to show off, but I prefer knowing that my audience appreciates it. In fact, before I met Jack I had sex with a guy I was dating, and his roommate came into the bedroom and watched and masturbated. He came all over the place. Now that was hot!
6. When it comes to sex, and discussing it with your teen have you or would you:
a. Let school sex education handle it
b. Hand the teen a book or point them to a website
c. Talk frankly and openly
d. Avoid it all together–society, friends, and the internet will give all the info needed
Our daughter is not yet a teen, so we have not yet addressed the topic of sex. We understand the need to possibly address it before the teen years, but at less than two years old, it’s probably not a priority right now. We understand that she will probably pick up some information from friends, as this is where Jack and I got much of our sexual education. But we would like to be able to have open, honest discussions about sex with her, and for her to feel like she can ask us anything without fear of punishment or ridicule. If she is not comfortable talking to us about it, as neither of us were comfortable talking about sex with our own parents, she has many aunts who are more than willing to talk with her about it.
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What are you too sexy for?
My job. There are things I do sexually that, if made public, could jeopardize my career.
Great answers, nice to see Jill responds t the same things S does. Also found it very interesting about Jill getting her hair washed. I’ve never seen a woman orgasm at a salon, that would be interesting.
@Jack:
1. nonsexual: LOL LOL
2. Good to know 😉
3. Lol…good answer.
4. Well if she had them exposed I would recognize them. Does that make me weird?! No, it just makes me an admirer…borderline stalker cuz I’d have to travel a long way to get a glimpse of those.
5. OMG…can I please please have an invite to watch you and Jill. I am a total voyeur.
6. “I hope that I will overcome it and be able to use said website as a supplement to our talks.”
Yes, I hope so too. Just remember you are arming your daughter with information to keep her safe and healthy! You love her that’s all a parent wants for their babies is to be happy, safe and healthy. That is your goal with the sex talk.
Bonus: Oh really now. The proof is in the picture.
-H
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Jack:
1. watching masturbation so hot
2. Never can go wrong with the neck kiss
3. Ditto
4. I am going to start looking for her breast
5. I’m envious
Jill,
1. Was the hair dresser male or female? and did they charge you extra for the happy ending 🙂
2. Hand on cock…. I think I named my blog after that 😉
4. that almost sounds like a challenge
5. Lucky friend
PS missed you at my blog
Jack – love your answer to 4 and weird folk recognising Jill by her breasts LMAO
Jill – bonus answer – I know that so well! My work colleagues would freak out a thousand times over if they even thought I wrote a blog, let alone read it!
@Jill:
1. orgasm at the hairdresser? You’re making that up
3. Yes, doin’ doggie are the times I recall queefing.
5. Masturbation is sex, so it counts.
Happy TMI Tuesday!
-H
tell us more about the orgasm at the hairdresser!
Hot answers and I really enjoy that both of you are so open and can do this together. Happy TMI excited to stop by
I always love hearing the male perspective, so nice to see Jack’s answers (and of course Jill’s resonate with me).
I had commented on another blog that sex bloggers were kind of in a league of their own as far as being frank and open about sexual discussions and really shouldn’t have a problem opening up to their teens no matter if they were UK or US, so I found your answers kind of interesting in that you seemed hesitant about being able to do that.
~Kazi xxx
Love the “kissing all over my body” description. So true.
Great answers! @Jack #4 LOL.
@Jill I must go to a salon with you one of this days!! I need an orgasmic experience!
Thanks for sharing!! fun fun
Too sexy for your job, nice! The kissing all over the body thing is HOT! Although I have done it to someone, never had it reciprocated. I like Jacks answer to 1.
I think you both will be more comfortable talking to your teen than you think. I am very comfortable with mine. Keep in mind I do not use myself as an example or mention what I have done. Everything is in general terms. Mine actually told me about furries and some other things I did not know about.
Jack – you’re right about watching a woman masturbate…I didn’t list in my response but I’m *right* there with you. There’s nothing more sexy than a woman who knows exactly what she wants and TAKES it for herself.
Great answers you two!!!
Great TMI answers. I’m horrible about leaving comments because I get tongue-tied, but I can relate to so much here.
Jack, I’m somewhat of a voyeur and I love to watch the opposite sex masturbate as well. That’s my favorite pornography, which means I have to mostly visit gay sites, as most porn sites are geared toward the heterosexual male. So, basically I am getting off watching gay men play with themselves. Gah.
Jill, I can relate to being too sexy for your job. I’m not a teacher (I used to sub, but haven’t in a couple of years), but I work with behaviorally and emotionally challenged adolescents at a live-in treatment center (kind of a group home setting) and if any of the parents found my blog, they would deem me unfit to care for their kids, which is really sad. Actually, just this week, somebody with a RAD child and a schizophrenic child came across last week’s TMI Tuesday where I made a flippant remark about placing kids in therapeutic holds for kicking me and the paperwork involved and left a comment basically telling me I was unfit to work with kids. Nothing could be further from the truth — I am wonderful at my job and the kids and I love and respect each other very much — but s/he decided they knew me based on that one stupid post. People can be so judgmental!
I loved all of your answers and I always love reading your blog. Thank you. XOXOXO